Deployment is an emotional rollercoaster. One minute, you’re thriving; the next, you’re crying because their side of the bed is empty. From the dramatic goodbye to the sweet spot of having the whole house to yourself, every Defence spouse goes through a weirdly predictable series of emotions. Some days, you’ll feel like you’ve got it all together. Other days? Everything will break at once, and you’ll just have to laugh (or cry) through it.
Starting a new school year can be exciting, but for Defence families, it often comes with extra challenges—new schools, different routines, and the emotional weight of transitions. Whether your child is adjusting after a move or navigating life with a deployed parent, a little preparation can make all the difference. From staying organised to building connections in a new school community, these back-to-school tips will help your family ease into the year with less stress and more confidence. Military life may bring unpredictability, but with the right strategies, you can create stability and support for your child no matter where you are.
Nothing fully prepares you for military life until you’re living it. When my partner enlisted, I thought I knew what to expect – deployments, moves, time apart – but there were so many things I didn’t see coming. The constant goodbyes, the waiting, the pride, and the way this life changes you as much as them. Looking back, there are things I wish I had known that would have made the transition easier. If you’re just starting this journey, this post shares what I’ve learned – the hard parts, the unexpected joys, and the small moments that make it all worth it.
This International Women’s Day, RSL Queensland is honouring the strength and contributions of women in the military community. From women veterans to military spouses, learn how RSL Queensland supports equality and recognition for women who serve and sacrifice, making a lasting impact on our society.
Connection is the foundation of a strong community, bringing people together and building resilience. This post explores the importance of building relationships within your community, highlighting how meaningful connections can provide support, encourage growth, and create a sense of belonging.
