
Simplifying Defence Life:
Stories, Tools & Connection
for Families Like Yours
(from someone who’s been there)
Welcome! I’m Amber, a proud defence partner and mum, dedicated to supporting families like ours.
Through personal experiences and practical advice, I aim to make defence life a bit simpler and more connected for you.
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“You are imperfect, you are wired for struggle, but you are worthy of love and belonging.”
— Brené Brown

Our Defence Journey: From Police Wife to RAAF Life
From night shifts and police rosters to relocations and RAAF life – this is the story of how our family moved through two worlds of service, and how I found my way through the chaos, the change, and the unexpected calm.
Photo-A-Day Challenge – April
This month’s Self-Care Snapshots is all about noticing the little things. No pressure, no deep themes – just a gentle nudge to pause, look around, and snap a moment from your day.
Our Defence Journey: From Police Wife to RAAF Life
From night shifts and police rosters to relocations and RAAF life – this is the story of how our family moved through two worlds of service, and how I found my way through the chaos, the change, and the unexpected calm.
Gentle Business as a Virtual Assistant
The concept of gentle business as a virtual assistant, focusing on sustainable growth, compassion, and meaningful client relationships.
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