Hello!

I’m Amber–it’s awesome to have you here. 

Uncool Mum, Defence Wife, Bear Hugger,  Earring Collector, Coffee Chaser, Business Owner + Life Empowerment Mentor — AKA #TheSelfKindnessAdvocate

Inspired by

connection

When you get into this life[style], the one area you learn to work on almost instantly is your ability to seek out, and connect with other people.

For some this will be via online channels, others it will be in person events, and others it may be through starting a new job, a course or program, joining a sporting group, or even just mingling with parents at school pickup.

“Every one of us needs to show how much we care for each other and, in the process, care for ourselves.”

— Princess Diana

My husband is a police veteran, and now sits within the RAAF branch of the Australian Defence Force.

Due to this, I have a deep apprecation for selfcare and wellness (AKA #TheSelfKindnessAdvocate). I also have an unhealthy addiction to fun earrings & a comfy pair of shoes.. both of which you will find in abundance in my wardrobe.

I’m in my happy place when there’s a coffee in my hand, there’s a caramel slice in front of me & the sun is out – but if I can’t have all of those things, I also love to wander + explore with our kids, avoid the washing, & can often be heard singing out of tune when wearing headphones.

Recent posts

250 Intention Words For The Year Ahead

250 Intention Words For The Year Ahead

What is Intention-Setting? Intention-setting is the practice of consciously deciding how you want to approach your day, week, or even your long-term goals. Unlike goals, which are often outcome-driven, intentions focus on the how - the mindset, values, and energy you...

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Saving And Budgeting Strategies On A Single Income

Saving And Budgeting Strategies On A Single Income

Living on a single income can be challenging, especially for military families navigating frequent relocations, deployments, and varying expenses. However, with the right saving and budgeting strategies, it’s possible to create financial stability and achieve long-term goals. This blog offers practical tips specifically tailored to help Australian military families make the most of a single income.

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What I Wish I Knew Before My Partner Enlisted

What I Wish I Knew Before My Partner Enlisted

Starting a journey as a military partner comes with unique challenges and rewards. In this post, I share what I wish I’d known before my partner enlisted, from navigating long absences to finding support networks. A must-read for anyone embarking on the military spouse journey.

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